If myself or another friend of this site has invited you, this website's boards are private because you can be accepted as a member only if you were invited. If you decide not to make your name your real name(because only the members on here will see it so you can use your real name), then post your real name and who you are or who invited you in the real name section and/or biography section when you join, so I can approve you and let you read the other boards. Thank you!